Going dark

Justice pinged me as soon as I got home today to point out what has happened to Kathy Sierra.  Take the time to read the whole of Kathy's post.  If you're not a subscriber to her blog, read the comments and you'll see how passionate the community is for her knowledge and personality.

I usually don't read the comments on blogs because you inevitably (at least on the A-List ones) get the run-off-at-the-mouth commenters who have nothing to add to the conversation, but feel that they want to be heard.  Taking it the level that Kathy has received is going from the down right absurd and irritating to criminal and frightening.  The perceived safety of the anonymity (again perceived) that can be afforded by the internet makes people think that they can say and do things with no more repercussions than a flaming.  As the web has matured, the user base has grown and the diversity of those users has increased, the acceptability of these acts has declined. 

Slowly the virtual world is growing to mirror the societal values of the real world.  I would suggest that we can't expect it change over night, but we should push to try to make it happen.  Just as we can't allow demeaning and destructive behaviour in our physical society, we can't allow it to happen in the virtual one either.  Unlike the real world, there are no dedicated cops in the virtual one.  Instead we primarily rely on corporations who are using the web for financial gain or we rely on each other.  Neither of those two options have much bite.  Really, who hear would change the fibre of their personal behaviour because I told them that they should?  Yeah...just like I thought...nobody.  Some hosting company takes down your blog because it has questionable content?  Big deal. It is easy to find another company who wants to make a buck and will look the other way if they even bother to investigate your past.

I hope we've reached the peak of this kind of action on the web, but let's face it, more and more the web is going to mimic real life.  In real life we have idiots by the droves.  I rarely read Scoble's blog, but today I did and for a change he's saying something that I believe in whole heartedly.  Like Scoble, I'm going dark until next Monday.

Kathy, I highly doubt you're reading this as you have way more important things to be doing right now, but if you do by chance, this scotch is for you.  Thanks for everything you've done for developers around the world.  Thanks for what you've done for developer communities around the world.  Thanks for what you've taught me.  If I'm ever lucky enough to make your acquaintance, I'm buying...establishment, food and beverages of your choice.

posted @ Monday, March 26, 2007 5:11 PM

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# re: Going dark

Left by Bert Bates at 3/26/2007 5:26 PM
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Thanks for your thoughts Donald!

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Left by Joey at 3/26/2007 8:18 PM
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There was no threat made to Kathy. The entire thing is a misunderstanding or an intentional hoax which stems from my criticism of her books. I am the "Joey" she is referring to and I ask that you read my reply at her site; assuming she doesn't delete it.

# re: Going dark

Left by Ron E. at 3/26/2007 10:19 PM
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Hello, In trying to express my rage and unrest towards these violent events made to Kathy, I created a small graphic called "Zero Violence Blog". I've posted it in my blog hoping people will download the images and include them in a small post relating to freedom of speech, and expressing the support Kathy must be needing today. If you feel like doing so, please head there or ask me and I will e-mail the logos directly to you. I hope you are moved enough as to try to express yourselves and do something now, before violence spreads wider into our blogging lives. Thanks, Ron E. http://brandcurve.com/zero-violence-blog/

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Left by Leah Alexi Cole at 3/27/2007 6:40 AM
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Kathy: You did the right thing by showing and listing all those who have threatened and intimidated. Although I can understand the fear it invokes, all of us who dare to speak our minds, needless to say who may actually have a good idea (yes, especially women STILL...) will receive these as well as many more who ARE sane and simply refuse and/or finally get fed up with these closed minded simpletons who feel much more threatened by you than you ever could by them. Such is the nature of politics, socioeconomics and more. This is just the reality of it as you well know by now. Do not fall into the trap of their imtimidating scare tactics, they would love nothing more. Afterall, it's a blog...it's only on PAPER. Male or female, search yourself. In it you will see, find, and rediscover who you are. Someone once said to me, "Remember who you are and where you came from." For such a simple statement, It has always struck me. So, remember who you are and where you came from. Have your day, your say and the guts to speak out, for your words may have the healing of powers not yet even known. What would Joan of Ark or Norma Rae do? Well, we know one ended in death, the other in unprecedented success. You'll be absolutely fine. A woman hater rarely constitutes an individual ready to stalk and shoot at the first possible easy target. Go for it Kathy. Build that backbone back up where you know it still lays. It is still there, waiting for the brain to send that message in conjunction and please don't lose this opportunity. Voices are the changes, the new laws and on occasion the healing of nations. And yes, more. Most Sincerely, Leah Alexi Cole alexi_fspeech@hotmail.com

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